Life is a lot different from the imaginary, fabricated on that we see in Hollywood. It always seem that men are able to confidently approach women, and without a need to search for the right pick up line. But why would this create a problem? With the fabricated script lines that are created for them, and the women who are paid to respond accordingly, there really should be no problem.

Let's face it though, in our real life it's not quite this easy, as the right 'line' isn't always at your disposal. This probably sounds all too familiar to most of us. Perhaps you're out with your friends, and notice a beautiful woman at that corner table. You procrastinate and procrastinate, and still haven't went to talk to her. You procrastinate even more, and look over again, and she's with another man - a confident man, who appears to know how to pick up girls. This man seems to be the man that everyone wants to be like, including you!

If your solution on how to be an alpha male and how to get girls is to brush up on those pickup lines, then you are bound to fail. Rare is the woman who will fall for a cheesy and overused pickup line. Imagine a woman who has heard your pickup line before from some other guy. Imagine a woman who has read that pickup line while surfing the Internet.

The key to approaching a woman is confidence. Stop racking your brain for things to say when you approach a woman. Be confident about yourself, your looks, your skills, and your own person. Come across as a guy who is out to have some relaxed fun and is not needy or desperate to pick up women. Show her your attraction not by saying that she looks like an angel who just fell from the sky. Tell her she's beautiful as relaxed or as matter-of-factly as possible. Don't say it like it's the line that will get you your next girlfriend. Say it as an honest compliment to a lady.

One important thing when picking up a woman is how to keep yourself different from the ordinary 'trying to take her home' scheme. Let's face it - women aren't stupid, and they'll be able to see right through you. Conversely, you must stay focused on ensuring keeping her interest, and more importantly stay interested in her's. Perhaps she has friends with her, which is an excellent opportunity to strike a conversation on how they met. Keep a well-balanced conversation by talking about both your interests and her's. The key is to send such a message that she realizes that you're not the typical guy, but rather a gentleman who is out to have a good time, and to get to know a truly interesting person - and not for what most other guys are after.